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Day 8: When Someone Throws You Under the Bus

5/17/2017

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Challenge Excepted

When you feel like you were "thrown under the bus" in a meeting or over an email:
  1. Acknowledge how you feel
  2. Take a deep breath and hold your neurovascular points
  3. Instead of saying to yourself or out loud 'You just throw me under the bus!" Say out loud, "Challenge accepted!"
  4. Wear something that activates your superhuman powers to take on the challenge
By changing the way we respond to events, we can help the energy that is generated in the micro instance of our interaction with a coworker to go to an empowered self, instead of  going to the victimized self. When we step into our power, we take on the challenges with gusto and create in a World that nourishes and supports us. Feeling expansive is more productive that feeling shrunk and not feeling in our power.
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Alex is empowered with the magic "Bells & Wishes" necklace that I made on the spot. He is guarded with the the superpowers of:
  • Learning things super fast
  • Ability to wrap time and space to be able to meet deadlines
  • Immunity to other tasks that wants to be a meal on his plate
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Dean link
3/3/2021 11:51:47 am

Appreciate you bloogging this

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